Don’t you wish when an interpersonal relationship issue arises, that you could put a magnifying glass to the problem and understand really what it is going on?
Luckily, anymore, I don’t find myself involved in too many interpersonal relationship problems. But, when they arise, they are usually doozies. And after the initial shock that attends the arrival of the issue, and after the attempt to address the problem as presented, I often find myself wondering, “What is really going on here?”
I think about the conundrum as presented to me and realize that the depth of emotion attendant to the issue is way out of proportion to the matter at hand. It is after this reflection that the problem becomes even more of an enigma. It is so very difficult to accept that no matter how much I love someone that the deepest part of their souls will always remain mysterious.
Wishing you a clear day,